Our marriage group (Retrouvaille) meets once a month. At these meetings, we talk about our strengthening our relationship as a married couple.
http://www.monikabronisz.pl/?my-assignment-help-contact The topic revolved around our loving relationship and how we appreciate each other. During this discussion, I realized I use love as a weapon. This sounds impossible since love is an emotion involved with giving yourself to the other. Love isn’t associated with weapons or war.
see Leave it to me to find a way to use an emotion related to beauty and selfless kindness and turn it into a weapon.
get link However, once I have a problem with my family from jealousy, I can withhold my love. I can make them feel unloved until they make up for my jealous emotions. This is not impossible since my jealously is based in past experiences. My family in the present cannot resolve problems from my past.
Instead of using my love as a weapon. I must stop and figure out why I’m trying to hurt my family through withholding my love and deal with that. I need to figure out why I’m in my emotional shadow. Once I realize I’m in-shadow, I need to feel and deal with my past.